Dr. Sherkow on Mother's Guide Through Autism Podcast & YouTube Video

Dr. Sherkow was delighted to join Brigitte Shipman on her podcast, Mother’s Guide Through Autism. The episode is available to watch on YouTube, and also to listen to via Shipman’s website, Spotify, and Apple podcasts.

In the episode, Dr. Sherkow outlines her career and decades of clinical experience working with children with ASD and developmental disorders, gives an overview of current neuroscience on ASD, and offers some revelatory strategies for approaching tough moments with your ASD youngster. We put a list of convenient timestamps for the YouTube video for specific pieces of advice, below.

Brigitte Shipman’s coaching and content creation focus on the experience of raising a child with ASD. Dr. Sherkow is the featured guest on Episode #155 of the Mother’s Guide Through Autism podcast (there’s plenty more to explore!). Shipman co-wrote a book with her son who is on the spectrum when he reached adulthood. The book is titled A Mother’s Guide Through Autism, but when flipped over, the book begins again with the title Through the Eyes of the Guided— her son Joseph’s side of the shared experience. This unique format is a touching dual memoir and offering to others on the journey.

We thank Brigitte Shipman for her work. Dr. Sherkow will soon return to the podcast for an episode on ASD in Adolescence. Stay tuned!

Watch on YouTube, or listen HERE

Timestamps for YouTube:

25:50-28:30 How to think about and respond to repetitive quoting behavior (ie: from film and tv)

32:45-33:-19 Strategy: Routine and “terrible twos” in adolescence

35:18-36:52 Strategy: Giving choices

37:32-38:05 What the ASD child is experiencing

39:15-40:24 How to set boundaries & handle meltdowns 

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Puberty and ASD

By Cynthia Stegman M.A.

What is puberty?

    Puberty is a developmental stage that begins approximately anywhere between the ages of 12  and 16, and is initiated by changes in the brain that signal the beginning of bone growth and the maturation of the bodily organs responsible for reproduction. Signals are sent to the centers that produce hormones, and to the reproductive organs that ready the body to make sperm or ovum.

    Puberty marks a time of change and adjustment for every youngster, but children on the spectrum are susceptible to undergoing a tremendous disconnect as they enter this stage of development.

    It is not uncommon for any child to be caught off guard by the changes that puberty brings, changes which will occur even if the child is not prepared to understand or undergo these changes firsthand. Not only are bodies changing with the appearance of breasts, erections, new hair and new odors, but the brain itself is also changing. Here, we will look at how these brand-new body parts and feelings come about, and how they affect someone on the autism spectrum.

    The physical changes of puberty are the most obvious. As hormones begin to prompt the body to change and grow, the brain is likewise being signaled to spark and reinforce new connections between neural pathways. The sudden arrival and intensity of puberty-directed thoughts can be an abrupt and scary change for someone with autism: the brain’s operation manual is literally changing, and change does not come easily to those on the spectrum.

    Next, it is important to understand what the brain is doing to everyone who goes through puberty.

    The pubertal brain changes how social information is processed. As a result of the new connections forming between neurons, there is heightened self-consciousness, mood variability, novelty seeking, increased risk-taking, and special susceptibility to peer influence, evaluation, and rejection. Preteen girls and boys entering puberty are extremely peer-orientated and programmed for conformity, as they begin to seek acceptance by a group other than their family. The pubertal brain’s executive functions also lag before they fully mature, due to interference in the capacity for delay of gratification and future-planning, although there is an increase in the brain’s working memory. All of this contributes to the generalized character of a brash, rash teenager with little thought of the future and its consequences. This is a normal stage of development, but each person’s reaction to it and journey through it will vary.

    Now, how does being on the autism spectrum make this process different?

    A preteen on the spectrum who is entering puberty is left stranded in this pubertal process with little or no tools to navigate these new waters. They similarly feel the drive to seek out and conform with peers, yet they often lack the knowledge of how to conform, exactly, and as a result are much more susceptible to the influence, acceptance, or rejection of others. Theory of Mind plays an important role in forming relationships, but for those on the autism spectrum, this is a process where deciphering the needs and concepts of "other" is typically incomplete, not easily available and not fully integrated.

    It is indeed known that a key feature of autism is difficulty in grasping key aspects of Theory of Mind, or understanding how another person has a unique point of view, with their own perspectives, intentions, fears and desires influencing how they interact with the world at large.  When one is unable to use the concept of Theory of Mind to “walk a mile in another’s shoes,” it is unlikely they will be able to understand how to fit in and conform to the group or individual from whom they are seeking approval. It is often the case that those on the spectrum simply do not have the knowledge to create a template for conforming.

    These youngsters on the spectrum are driven to seek out and fit in with others, but it is common for frustration and anxiety to surface instead, rather than a sense of belonging or accomplishment. Without a social template to conform to, appealing to a group or gauging social reactions are difficult, if not also extremely daunting tasks. The changing pubertal brain’s interference with gratification delay also makes any setback that much more intolerable. There is a building conundrum for those on the spectrum of how to recognize or act on the feelings that puberty brings.

    These rising levels of confusion and anxiety might make the body rely on former outlets during this confusing transition. For example, a baby on the autism spectrum might have relied on hitting and kicking his mother before learning to use language to signal he was hungry or tired; early intervention services likely taught him how to recognize and deal with the pattern of these emotions, along with internalizing and scaffolding key concepts of self, so that he learned to verbally request what he wanted and learned to self-soothe. However, at the onset of puberty there is an entirely new set of emotions to identify and process with appropriate reactions, and these former tools cannot be adequately stretched or adapted to deal with them.

    When a young male on the spectrum begins to notice necklines and hemlines he may become sexually excited, and agitated that he does not understand why he is excited, and anxious about why he is feeling both angry and happy, and scared because this is all new territory. The autistic youngster entering puberty might once again begin kicking and hitting others, even after years of seeming well-adjusted. The pubertal world is brand new, the brain's neural pathways are brand new, but he is left with the same tools of childhood. These tried and tested tools no longer work, and more than that, it is difficult for these youngsters to even give voice to the inner turmoil that puberty brings. They are unwilling or unable to ask for any kind of help, to find new tools and strategies for navigating the pubertal world.

    This inevitable transformation only complicates the experience of puberty for those on the autism spectrum. It is vital that these adolescents receive the additional support and resources they need at this developmental milestone to overcome these difficulties.

    In our experience, youngsters on the spectrum seem to develop the psychological piece of adolescence before they show physical signs of puberty, which can be very misleading for parents who are not expecting those early changes. 

    Our next blog will address this topic, along with some techniques and tips for helping your youngster make the transition into puberty.

An Online Spark Social Skills Group

By Hallie G

Because of COVID-19, Spark switched from in person to online in mid-March. When we meet in person so much of Spark is about interacting and using the physical space, so at first, I wondered how we could make the switch to zoom and still have our fun at Spark as usual. In an in person session, we start with an introduction activity and a dance-move circle, ending forming the Spark star. Then, we go over the schedule and make any announcements we need to make. 

Fortunately, it wasn’t hard to make this switch and discover a productive, fun way to have Spark. On zoom, it’s different because sessions are 1-on-1 rather than with the whole team. We don’t do the introduction circle or Spark star, but we still go over the schedule. This helps keep a sense of order. In person, we would then start with an activity. Over zoom, we developed a different routine. We start with a mini workout since we are sitting around all day. This workout is done to the music of my buddy’s favorite song, so it keeps him engaged, and lets us move around. Then, we do an activity that would either be word association games, talking about a certain subject, or answering questions about our lives. Then, we play an online game that my buddy loves. The online games are either matching games or baking games, and it is fun to play with him, which we’d be doing in person. Since online Spark usually happened after a full day of online school, we realized doing something entertaining and intriguing was more useful. By keeping my buddy engaged, we were able to develop this routine and realize what worked. Although these sessions are very different, I think it is important to create a fun Spark routine, because this makes Spark feel predictable and safe.

A Spark Mentor's First Year

by Hallie G., Spark Mentor

[note: "buddies" refer to clients in the Spark Psycho-Social skills program, which you could read more about here]

I started Spark in the fall of 2018 as a 10th grader. Before beginning Spark, I was invited to come to a group session the past spring to get a sense of what Spark was like. When observing the group session, I wasn’t sure what to expect. I knew that mentors were paired with buddies and they did activities together, but I didn’t realize that they would have such a special relationship. One activity that stuck out to me was when mentors and buddies were simulating a working store. Buddies were practicing taking and counting money and interacting with “customers,” who were mentors. I remember seeing everyone laughing together, and it showed me what Spark is really like. Spark is a place where not only buddies, but mentors too, can come to have fun and try new activities. I’ve experienced this myself over the past year, doing activities I would never do myself: painting with marbles, playing matching games, doing taste tests with chocolate, and doing relay races, to name a few. As well as having fun at Spark, I’ve developed a great relationship with my buddy. He went from never knowing my name to greeting me every Wednesday with the same two questions: “What’s your favorite color?” and “What’s your favorite number?” I’ve had a very memorable first year at Spark and I can’t wait to continue in the future!

Yoga Benefit 2019

Join us on November 3rd 2019, for our Annual Yoga Benefit

Our 2018 Yoga Benefit Success Story

We would like to express our gratitude to everyone who participated in our Annual Yoga Benefits, to our yoga leader Helene Kerheve and the Om Factory, and to all of those who contributed to The Sherkow Center Treatment Scholarship Fund this past May. This year alone, we are able to raise 100% scholarship funds for TWO CHILDREN for the Spark Program next semester!

As a non-for-profit organization, we aim to not only promote the optimal development of all our clients, but to also provide the lowest possible treatment cost for our services; approximately 75% of the annual cost of the Spark Program is covered by the Center, which leaves 25% of the cost to the family of the child. Unfortunately, along with the various additional expenses of individual and related therapies, many parents struggle to afford even this small portion of the overall cost. The Junior Committee was created to address this exact issue: we are a devoted team dedicated to raising money to help our clients, through various community events and fun activities centered around autism awareness.

Thank you again for your generosity, and for helping us make a difference in the lives of The Sherkow Center’s children and families.

The Benefits of SPARK: An Intern's Perspective by Agathe de Pins & Tess Jacobson

The Benefits of Spark: An Intern’s Perspective

As Interns that have worked with numerous populations of individuals with atypical development, we have observed many different approaches to therapy, including Assisted Behavioral Analysis and D.I.R. (Developmental, Individual-differences, Relationship-based) Floortime Therapy. 

As new interns at The Sherkow Center, we were — and continue to be — interested in learning Dr. Sherkow’s psychoanalytic approach to treating children on the Autism Spectrum. 

Spark’s “Yellow Team”

Sherkow Center Interns

While our daily training includes observing how psychoanalysis impacts children with ASD through therapy, we have also been given the opportunity to participate in The Sherkow Center’s Spark Psycho-Social program. Although Spark is geared more toward creating a social atmosphere rather than a clinical one-on-one therapeutic experience, there are multiple aspects of the Spark program that stand out to us as characteristic of The Sherkow Center’s psychoanalytic approach to ASD treatment. 

SPARK’s Green Team

Psychoanalysis and the Spark program

To begin with, Spark’s social setup of pairing each child with a similarly-aged mentor is a quality that immediately stood out to us and set the Spark program apart from other social groups targeting children with ASD. In addition to allowing each child to bond with a specific mentor each week, peer-mentor pairings serve a number of different purposes. For instance, on different occasions, we have observed the children opening up to their mentors by sharing their feelings, articulating frustrations and even sharing jokes that reflect the individuality of a particular peer-mentor bond. 

Consequently, we have come to view mentors as social outlets for the children to communicate with as they become more comfortable with them during Spark. 

Each child expresses his or her anxieties differently and, thanks to the uniqueness of these peer-mentor relationships, over time the mentor will recognize these specific behaviors and have a better understanding of the child’s mental state, and of the progress he or she has made. This allows the staff to understand more clearly the children’s thought processes and behaviors, which can then be further addressed during one-on-one therapy. 

Spark’s “Green Team”

Group Discussions lead to more Insight

Another major feature of Spark is the post-group debriefing meeting with all of the mentors at the end of each of session; this group discussion allows mentors and staff to discuss the day’s events in-depth, and thus better navigate the inner workings of each child’s mind — a process we have not seen with other therapeutic social groups for ASD children. 

During these meetings, mentors are given the chance to share insights, anecdotes, concerns, conflicts that came up during Spark , or any other details related to each child’s progress. Both a learning experience for the group of mentors and a vital source of information for staff, these meetings reflect the Center’s goals to treat and understand children with ASD through the lens of psychoanalysis. 

Cooking skills at SPARK

What role does Psychoanalysis play?

As seen in Dr. Sherkow’s therapeutic approach, Spark is not about correcting “bad” or “wrong” behavior, nor do mentors or staff aim to reprimand children for expressing their anxieties through symptomatic behavior. Rather, we have seen mentors and staff work together to address the children’s concerns by acknowledging their feelings and verbally articulating their anxieties. 

By directly addressing the behavior that stems from frustration, anger or anxiety, the children are able to feel understood and reassured. 

As a result of feeling heard and supported, these children tend to gradually become more likely to express or vocalize their feelings. Without being explicitly told how to act or what behaviors to stop doing, the children learn to shift how they communicate their anxieties, which, in turn, allows the people around them to better interpret their thoughts. 

Practicing our cooking skills in Spark.

These are just a few ways in which we, as interns, have observed a difference in the way The Sherkow Center addresses the neurobehavioral disorder of Autism in a social skills group compared to others we have witnessed. 

We look forward to continuing our observations and further learning the benefits of psychoanalysis on behavior and the mind! 

Elopement in Children with Autism Spectrum Disorder: How to Address and Prevent It

Elopement occurs when a child with autism suddenly wanders away from a parent or caregiver in public. 

This is a common issue encountered by caregivers which can create a difficult, scary, and high-pressure situation for the child’s family. When a child with autism runs away in public, not only is it hard to make him or her come back to his or her senses, but it is often a complicated process just to understand the root of this elopement. 

Practice safe travel with ASD children. 

The Root Issue of Elopement

Dr. Sherkow believes that the underlying issue in this situation is often related to an inner conflict, fantasy or a specific trigger in the child’s life. From a developmental point of view, it is normal for all children to have the unconscious wish of eloping from their caregivers.

However, children with ASD have more trouble developing patterns and processing such desires, often resulting in bigger tantrums or making it more difficult for caregivers to redirect their attention once they have become fixated on this idea. 

The time and way a child with autism elopes often reveals the cause of this inner anxiety. 

Dr. Susan Sherkow

In fact, even the smallest change in routine can be difficult to process for the ASD child. This difficulty, in turn, can trigger an emotional outburst — eloping— or a desire to test the person responsible for this change by running away. The child might want to see if the relationship with the caregiver is reciprocal: if the child ignores the rules and runs away, will the nanny fulfill her duty, and follow the rules, to run after the eloping child? 

Elopement can occur with a parent, nanny, or other caregiver.

As interns at The Sherkow Center, we have been in situations where a child has run away from us in the street. More often than not, the child always stops after a short distance to check if we are still behind him- if we have been watching, and keeping up with him! This issue of elopement often occurs when a scheduled visit has been abruptly canceled, or a previous session missed, which is a big change in an autistic child’s routine. 

The roots of this physical elopement are often similar to those of an emotional elopement: when a child verbalizes his desire to leave his or her family. This other type of elopement will be addressed in our next blog post. 

Here are some approaches you can take, from a psychodynamic point of view, to deal with the physical elopement of ASD children in public. 

1. Determine what the internal conflict is.

When a child with ASD decides to elope or wander off, it is often the product of some inner anxiety or conflict. Thus, in order to properly deal with such a situation, the first and most important thing to do is to try to understand the root of this inner anxiety or conflict. 

First, think about the child’s usual routine and try to identify any changes that could have prompted the elopement. Even minor changes are incredibly disruptive! 

If no changes are found, then one can think about how the specific setting and situation might be making the child anxious. The caregiver should verbalize this thought process out loud with the child: “We are at the park after school, and are on our way to see the dentist…”. Do any words employed trigger a reaction from the child, such as laughter, screaming, a tantrum? Once the child shows any type of reaction, the caregiver will be aware of what might be at the root of the elopement, and thus able to handle the situation more directly and effectively. 

2. Verbalize the anxiety.

After identifying a potential cause of the elopement, it is important to voice the specific anxiety in order to make the child feel understood. By verbalizing the anxiety and acknowledging the child’s feelings out loud, you will help the child feel reassured and safe in his environment. The statement can be as simple as, “I understand that the dentist must be very scary and give you worries, but everything will be fine.” 

Another method for verbalizing the anxiety is to speak in a sing-song tune, while still identifying the trigger and child’s reaction: “I want to go in another direction / but they are not letting me, / maybe next time I will be able to, / run so fast away and go weee!” This tactic makes the interaction between caregiver and child more playful, and the child might forget about his opposition and instead focus on the lighthearted tune. 

3. Redirect the child’s attention.

Another useful method for stopping elopement is to redirect the child’s attention to something other than the source of the anxiety. Hyper-focusing on the elopement, and making the child increasingly nervous about the fact that he is eloping, will only make the situation more difficult to deal with. 

Instead, try asking the child about something completely different such as what he has planned for the rest of the day, or pointing out something that is going on around him. This will help the child re-center himself in the situation and better control his impulses. 

If the child is too anxious to focus on your words, trying to catch the child’s gaze and make eye contact is also useful in redirecting attention. 

4. Define boundaries. 

Defining boundaries with the child and making him feel more in control of the situation will help avoid elopement in the first place. There are multiple ways to predetermine boundaries with a child. Before going anywhere, first talk with the child about what route he expects to take, which will prevent unpredictable transfers or paths that might upset him. 

Then, you can show a visual representation of the path you will be taking that day, so that he internalizes it and is not surprised by the route. 

Another option, if indoors, is to put paper cut-outs of “footsteps” on the floor. This type of visualization is meant to show the child exactly where he is allowed to walk, and where he is not allowed. 

Finally, when asking a question of the child it is better to give the child two choices, rather than asking an open-end question. Instead of asking, “How do you want to travel to the dentist today?” try narrowing down the question with a specific choice between two things, such as “Do you want to take the A train or a taxi to the dentist?”.  This tactic limits the overwhelming possibilities and unpredictability of the question, and most importantly, the child will feel more in control of the situation, as they had a palpable choice in the outcome. 

These tactics will be useful in deescalating an elopement, or even avoiding it entirely.

Elopement in Children with Autism Spectrum Disorder: How to Address and Prevent It

By Agathe dePins

Yoga Tips for Autism

On April 24th, The Sherkow Center staff attended a workshop presented by Dr. Deborah J. Gruber at The Shema Kolainu School. This workshop addressed the benefits of practicing yoga for atypically developing children, specifically those with autism. 

At The Sherkow Center, we had already discovered the need for beginning each Spark group with a consistent activity in order to help our ASD youngsters transition from the waiting room into the play-space. By implementing a few minutes of yoga poses as a warm-up, we provide a consistent and calming activity as a prelude to the session’s various scheduled activities. 

                Little did we know, there are a number of additional benefits to practicing yoga! As with other physical activities for children with autism and developmental delays, it provides much-needed predictabilitythat engages the body and all of the senses. 

                It is already known that yoga helps cultivate consciousness of one’s own behavior. In addition to the mental and physical health benefits of yoga, various yoga techniques also prompt the development of crucial skills, namely those that are communicative and social in nature. Improvements in communication and sociability influence the ability to form healthy relationships, which a child with autism may benefit from.

Yoga Tips for Autism Spectrum Disorder clients

Dr. Gruber introduced relevant and useful behavioral strategies such as utilizing physical prompts, picture schedules, video modeling and positive reinforcement, which can be used during physical activities such as yoga. 

1. While teaching yoga to children with autism, it is important to be aware of the motor limitations of each child. Sometimes, a seemingly “easy” position can be challenging and frustrating for a child. Breaking down the position into a sequence of simple movements will prevent the child from being overwhelmed and allow him or her to follow instructions and stay on task. This also provides a chance to work on and improve the child’s attention span, and to provide an opportunity for imitation.

2. Video modeling provides a visual demonstration of the position so that the child can process the sequence of movement before practicing and achieving the proper form. Once the sequence of movements has been processed, children can be paired up with peers and take turns demonstrating what they have learned from the following video. 

3. The instructor should notice and praise positive behavior [as Dr. Gruber says “catch’em being good”.] This will increase the probability that a good behavior or position might “stick” and occur again. 

4. Depending on the level of motor coordination of the child, you can adapt your approach by introducing “pretend play skills.” For instance, asking the child to pretend to be a literal “dog”or “tree” will reinforce the child’s mental representation of the pose’s name, allowing him to feel free to do his own version of the position. This creates the opportunity for some lighthearted play and bonding between the instructor and child, as well as for some interesting interpretations! The instructor should imitate the child’s own portrayal, before guiding them into a traditional position with a Downward Dog position for instance. 

5. The use of music during the practice of yoga may be useful for a group-wide sing-a-long, as well as for providing a lighter, more enjoyable environment than an over-stimulating one. 

6. Finally, another way to engage children in developing awareness of their body is to play “Yogi Says,” aversion of the traditional “Simon Says.” This helps children practice body part identification as they work with each yoga pose, making them concentrate on their own bodies as well as the body parts involved in each sequence of the movement. 

Tracking Passion in ASD

Tracking Passion in ASD

BY Carlotta Bettencourt

The Sherkow Center team was fascinated to read the New York Times article, For Autistic Boys, the Subway Is Actually Soothing. In fact, we at the Center already know that it can be difficult to transport some children on the spectrum, and as such offer transportation services: in lieu of a more traditional nanny, a trained staff member escorts an ASD client between school and other activities such as our Spark social group, and ultimately serves as a therapeutically-informed and supportive figure for the child, helping the child process the transitions between school and other activities, and is supportive if a difficult moment arises from a transition or other trigger.

As an intern at the Center, I have had first-hand experience taking the NYC subway with autistic boys. Although each boy is on a different “level” of the spectrum, I have always been astonished by the fascination each one has with the subway system. While therapy treatment for ASD mostly focuses on behavioral and emotional regulation, it is important to also strengthen the child’s sense of identity by emphasizing remarkable abilities. In this case, the unique ability to memorize the subway routes and excel at spatial navigation seems to be a remarkably common strength for these children.

How we Understand this Fascination

At the Sherkow Center, we emphasize the importance of neurobiological wiring, as well as prediction and pattern making: these are the tools that a developing child uses in order to scaffold his cognitive resources and, ultimately, how he learns what to expect as he navigates the world. Our classic example of this principle is the image of a mother with a baby bottle: a hungry, crying infant will summon a mother with a baby bottle or breast for food, and after numerous repetitions of this scenario under normal development, the baby will begin to react to and be soothed by just the image of mother arriving. Ideally, baby will internalize this pattern (that mother’s arrival ->leads to food -> leads to positive feelings), and even before seeing the bottle or getting the nipple in his mouth, he will now calm down just at the sight of mother, as he is able to predict that food is now on the way!

Clearly, pattern making and internal scaffolding is an integral part of development. In the ASD population, which has a slightly different neurobiological wiring of the brain, these youngsters still receive pleasure from the pattern-making and prediction process. Of course, this makes the MTA public transport system incredibly appealing to these children! As the article already acknowledges, the set routes and timetables are a huge attraction for autistic boys, but we believe that this is due to their photographic memory as well as the inherent pleasure of making patterns and predictions. An autistic child refusing certain train lines may seem “stubborn,” but what we cannot see is the complexity of the issue: he is reciting every stop on the Z line out loud because of his superb photographic memory, and his excitement is building as he predicts each stop and then arrives at each one, and then there is an opportune service delay and a chance for one of two transfers, which means a chance to be creative!

New or “unknown” things may seem scary to an autistic child, but as all of this occurs in the static, relatively unchanging MTA system, the child can exercise a choice and some control over the route while remaining in the “predictable” realm. It is incredibly important to understand how satisfying it is for a child, to allow his strengths to shine, and subway riders should keep this in mind when they see an excited or “stimming” subway rider.

A Typical Trip

New Yorkers certainly don’t idealize the MTA. Sure, it is convenient at times, since the city traffic is horrible. However, very quickly the loud noises, disturbing smells, and big crowds become very overwhelming even for an adult. One would think that for a child with ASD, these sensorial aspects would make the experience even more difficult. Yet, we have noticed that the sensorial aspects do not seem to bother these children at all, and their excitement becomes contagious along the way in spite of these “negative” aspects. The normally irritating sound of an arriving train suddenly becomes a positive stimulation, even to my own senses, as I clearly watch each boy’s eyes brighten up when staring at an arriving train.

As we enter a subway car, the normal routine is to immediately look for available seats to claim. However, when we are with our ASD clients, the main priority becomes being in the very first car at the front-facing windowed doors: this allows for the best uninterrupted view of the tracks. As mentioned in the original article, one other subway feature that may appeal to autistic children is the rapid visual stimulation passing train cars and tracks offer. Depending on the boy, some might prefer to go to the end or the beginning of the subway train, but the goal seems to be the same: to claim a prime viewing spot on the first or last car, for an uninterrupted and intimate experience between the boy, and the tracks. The sparkle in each and every boy’s eyes are unexplainable.

The mastery of the subway lines, linked to these children’s uncannily perceptive photographic memory and pleasure with pattern-making, allows the child to personally interact with geography and public transport, and as discussed before this creative process can lead to limitless route possibilities within the closed MTA system. One time while transporting a boy from school to the Center, a subway line I usually took to get from point A to point B was down. I immediately starting searching for the subway map to find an alternative way. Effortlessly and before even seeing the map, the boy immediately cited two other ways we could arrive, by making one or two different transfers. Many times during previous transports, this same boy requested and then guided us through many different subway and bus routes; by this time, I knew I could blindly trust an eight-year-old when it came to find a reliable subway route!

Encourage their Passion

It may be surprising that autistic boys enjoy the subway, even in spite of the overwhelming sensorial aspects of it, but again and again we have witnessed this common fascination among boys on the spectrum. To those who have or know a child on the spectrum, there is a high probability that you have seen them wear t-shirts, socks, or any kind of clothing with a subway line logo. This kind of clothing is so popular that it can even be found at the Transit Museum at Grand Central. If you have a child on the spectrum that enjoys public transportation, an idea for a fun family outing might be an afternoon spent exploring the MTA routes, discussing together the fastest or most exciting route options, and making a final stop at the Transit Museum for a chance to see all of the different subway-related books, clothes, and toys they have to encourage your child’s interest.